I really dont know why are you going around ruining other people's friendship. Like seriously, you have ruined 2 friendships already. Now the third or maybe fourth? And you even got her sick? What are you trying to do? I dont think this is fun at all and you should stop before you end up hurting more people..
Stop ruining people's friendship.

I dont think that you should ask people to stop being her friend just over that hari raya thing. Its childish. Everyone has forgotten about it already but why are you still bearing the grudge?